Are you dreading a disappointment? Are memories of past Valentines hurting you?
Valentine Day is not always an easy day for many of us. If you are in a rocky relationship, recently broken up, or just have not found the ONE, it could be a difficult day, and all those chocolates and flowers can ache.
Rumi the great Sufi poet who write so eloquently about love, tells us that when it comes to LOVE we ‘gamble the circle around the zero’–
“A lover gambles everything, the self, the circle around the zero! He or she cuts and throws it all away”
According to a survey , the most popular Valentine’s Day card (romantically named V330-5 by Hallmark), simply states: “Each time I see you, hold you, think of you, here’s what I do … I fall deeply, madly, happily in love with you. Happy Valentine’s Day.”
When we fall in love we are flooded with oxytocin we are in bliss of romantic dreams, we are on to ‘forever’.
BUT When our relationships hit rocky spots, which they inevitably do, we begin the fights.. the blame.. the despair..
When it comes to our loved ones, we fight for connection, we protest disengagement and separation, we react, we panic, we become defensive and offensive.
We are cued to see any abandonment or rejection as ‘life threatening’.
We are so tightly invested in the meaning of that relationship, that conflicts over simple things can become a life or death matter.
IT’S BECAUSE YOU MATTER SO MUCH TO YOUR LOVER AND YOUR PARTNER — THAT YOU DO NOT GIVE UP THE FIGHT.
In our HOLD ME TIGHT WORKSHOPS you will have the opportunity to rediscover the magic and renew your commitment to your bond.
Here is an opportunity to explore, discover, heal, forgive, discover new possibilities for you and your partner.
Experience this ground breaking work to renew trust and intimacy within your relationship, deepen your emotional connection, develop closeness with one another, and create a secure base for both people to flourish
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